The best lesson in life

So all of us folks married in the last 15 years or so have done it. The good old six week course with the minister to inform you about all things marriage. Given my inability to sit through classes and now meetings, our course was nothing more than a painful duty that I had to complete. How was some guy that barely knew us going to enlighten us and provide a foundation for our marriage for the next 50 years?

Low and behold, he said something to us that I think constantly. In a round about way, he said you two will be together for all of life. Children will come and go but maintaining a healthy relationship will help you endure all things thrown at you long after your children have come and gone. His story involved couples that become so deeply involved with their children, that 18 years after that first child has come and departed the nest, some couples look at each other unsure of who they married and how they need to interact after they are left along once again.

I think about this a lot, especially with our losses. Sometimes I think it is just luck or maybe fate but somehow I was joined with Tiffany for a reason. A reason that was beyond my control and was pure destiny. We have an ability to grown with each lesson life has presented us and we are actually a stronger, more capable duo than ever before. I draw on that lesson he (can you believe I actually have no idea what his name was even though he is the legal link between us) gave to us.

Long after Cocoa Been has come and gone, I will have an unbreakable bond with my wife. All the joy that we will find with our new gift will only be a building block for the most important bond of all, our relationship.